Why Everyone’s Talking About Sex Toys (And Why It’s Totally Normal If You Are Too)

You know what’s funny? I remember a time when even saying the words “sex toys” out loud felt awkward. Like, whisper-it-in-the-corner awkward. But these days, it’s a different story. More and more people are opening up about their needs, wants, and curiosities—and honestly, it’s refreshing.

Whether it’s on TikTok, in group chats, or whispered between mates after a glass of wine, the topic of sex toys is no longer off-limits. And thank goodness for that. Because once you get past the stigma, what you’re really talking about is self-awareness, exploration, and just… feeling good in your own skin.

So, what’s behind the buzz?

Let’s get real. Life can be hectic. Work, family, health, the endless slog of adulting—it all piles up. Somewhere in between, your own pleasure can easily get shoved to the bottom of the to-do list. That’s where toys come in—not as a luxury, but as a little act of rebellion against burnout and “meh” moods.

And no, this isn’t just about solo play. Sure, many people discover toys on their own (and what a glorious rabbit hole that can be), but couples are getting into the game too. A good toy can take things from “routine” to “whoa, what just happened?” in seconds.

The secret sauce: choosing what suits you

Not all toys are created equal. What works for one person might not do a thing for someone else—and that’s okay. It’s part of the fun, actually. You get to experiment, explore, and learn along the way.

Start with a question: what kind of stimulation do you enjoy? Do you want something gentle or intense? Hands-free or interactive? Internal, external, or a bit of both? Some people go straight for the buzz, others fall in love with suction, and a few like a little of everything (no shame there).

And don’t let flashy marketing fool you. The best sex toys aren’t always the ones with ten million vibration settings or built-in Wi-Fi. Often, it’s the simpler, well-designed ones that get the job done beautifully.

Is it weird to shop for these things in Australia?

Not even a little bit.

In fact, Australia’s becoming one of the most open-minded places when it comes to sexual wellness. More local stores are stepping up to offer high-quality, body-safe products, fast delivery, and—this part matters—discreet packaging. Because while we’re cool with pleasure, not everyone needs the postie knowing our business.

It’s also easier than ever to read honest reviews, watch how-to videos, and learn from real people’s experiences. No awkward shop visits required. Just you, your phone, and a bit of curiosity.

One last thing (and it’s important)

You don’t need a reason to want pleasure. You don’t have to explain why you’re curious about a certain toy or why you want to try something new. Your body, your rules.

Exploring with toys is personal. It’s not about trends or keeping up with what your mates are doing—it’s about discovering what lights you up inside. And in a world that can feel heavy and exhausting, taking time for that joy isn’t just okay. It’s powerful.