7 Naughty Essentials That Will Make Your Sex Feel Like It’s Supposed To (Spoiler – GREAT)
You already know how to get it on and there is no way we’re telling you you’re doing something wrong. But if we are talking realistically, be honest – just “okay sex” isn’t going to cut it. You want it to be a cannot-wait-to-do-it-again sex, the kind of sex that leaves you with shaking knees and basking in afterglow, right?
Well, you are about to get the ultimate toolkit for taking your fun times to uncharted levels of mind-blowing pleasure. These naughty essentials are not just recommendations, but actual must dos for those who really wanna get those big Os.
Why “Good Enough” Sex Simply Isn’t Enough
Mediocrity is a thief of passion, cause it gets boring way too fast, huh? Whether you’re trying to improve things with a long-term partner or trying to heat things up with a few short-term dalliances, there’s always a room for a little improvement. Anyway, it doesn’t require a total overhaul. In fact, sometimes, it’s just the right combo of tools, tricks, and daring new moves that hits so much different.
7 Steps To Unleash The Sexiness And Have Better Sex Every Time
We do not teach you all the techniques to “making love”- every body is different, every partner is different, and don’t even get us started on kinks. But in truth, there are a few common denominators that will generally improve sex for anyone. We talk much more about raw connection and uninhibited pleasure as well as experimenting with things that really rev up your engines.
From steamy accessories to mental foreplay, these essentials will allow you to reimagine your sex life completely. You thought it was hard for you to reach the peak? Hm… You though you only have responsive desire? Hmmmmm… Do you think you can only finish when a specific spot is being stimulated? Hmmmmmmmmmmmm….
1. Set Up A Killer Playlist
Music is not background noise, but it is a whole foreplay for your ears and senses. Set up a personalized playlist that correlates with what you’re looking for, whether it be slow and sensual or “dirtier and more intense.” Think moody beats, breathy vocals, and maybe even a surprise track or two to keep things unpredictable.
2. Don’t Skimp On The Quality Lube
Let us not beat about bushes (or anywhere else): lube makes everything better. From providing added glide to enhancing feel, it is an unsung hero in unforgettable nights; and no, just because they use it doesn’t mean they “need” it; trust us, it will change your life. Also, there is a rule of thumb when it comes to lube – if you feel like you’ve added enough, add a little bit more.
3. Turn On Sensual Or Neon Lighting
Low lighting can sully any area into a gloriously debauched place; fairy lights, candles, or even an adjustable bulb with a red hue can go a long way to accomplish that. And dim lighting makes anyone feel like a damn snack. Cast in shadow, both you and your lover will feel more confident and more like you’re starring in an erotic movie. And not a trashy one, but an arthouse, Berlin movie festival type of erotica.
4. Use Sex Toys For Added Spice
It was all fun and games until we get to talk about toys – sex toys, of course (he-he). From sleek, simple but powerful vibrators to intricate bondage sets with buckles, from a tiny little anal plug to a scary-big vibrating wand massager, sex toys unlock your body in a way no caress from your lover ever could – because it’s their job. They are your keys to crazy pleasure, shared or solo, but not only that – a sex toy can also become your self-exploration and self-love tool.
There is a reason why we say it’s important to love yourself first, before you can really love another – no matter how cheesy, this idea applies very literally to using sex toys for self-pleasure. By exploring your own body, learning your likes and icks, and finding out the pleasure your body is capable of will enable you to become more skillful when ti comes to pleasing your partner – that’s a fact.
Sex toys can also help train your body to achieve the things you want when you’re with your partner. For example, some men can train with strokers to teach themselves to last longer. Or. alternatively, a lady can do a workout with ben wa balls to couch her muscles to clench and finish faster and harder.
5. Wear A Signature Scent
Smell is a really big turn on, so having a signature scent (candle, massaging oil, or your own perfume) creates an experience that hangs in the air long after the night is done. Not just sexy but definitely unforgettable.
6. Put On Seductive Lingerie (Applicable for All)
Undoubtedly, the lure of lingerie is much more than attraction; this is a true factor in which wearing something good makes anyone feel so confident. Lace, leather, or just nothing, it can electrify your energy wearing something that makes you feel hot.
7. Don’t Neglect The Weight Of The Words
There’s more to dirty talk than just fun; it can be really necessary. Sweet nothings or filthy hints will really give that jolt when you let your partner know exactly what you want (and what they are good at). Don’t think it too hard; just let it go.
Make Your Sex So Much Better With These Easy Tips
Leveling up your sex life isn’t about doing more-it’s getting better at doing it. Have all the tools ready with a bit of a playful mentality and your willingness to cross limits; you will surely shift your intimate moments into another gear. Now go light those candles, crank that playlist and let the magic happen.